Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Featured: DeeAnn Of LiveTheCharmedLife "100 Ways To Be Elegant"

Thank you to Ms. DeeAnn for letting me feature this wonderful article!

You can find her blog at: livethecharmedlife.com where she has MANY wonderful and useful posts that I know you'll love as much as I do!


100 Ways To Be Elegant:

1. Send Thank You notes

2. Practice good posture

3. Speak more softly

4. Listen without interrupting

5. Wear solid colours

6. Ignore fads, or use them sparingly

7. Have a signature wine that you serve at home

8. Wear only 2-3 accessories

9. Have impeccable manners

10. Read on a variety of topics

11. Maintain a budget

12. Study the arts

13. Have one signature perfume/cologne

14. Show restraint in expressing anger

15. Learn the art of conversation

16. Learn French

17. Wear a trench coat

18. Learn how to wear a scarf

19. Wear a tuxedo, when one is called for

20. Practice quality over quantity

21. Don’t yell or scream

22. Learn to dance the waltz

23. Have one fabulous signature meal you serve guests

24. Remember birthdays

25. Go on picnics

26. Wear dresses/suits more often, and on dates

27. Simplify your life, your home and your calendar

28. Wear pearls

29. Open the door for ladies

30. Let him open the door for you

31. Remember that it’s more important to be kind than it is to be right

32. Serve coffee or tea after meals

33. Arrive exactly on time

34. Don’t complain

35. Dress to travel

36. Be well travelled

37. If you’re a women, don’t wear black shoes between Memorial Day and Labor Day…wear spectator pumps instead

38. Keep your home clean and uncluttered

39. When guests stay over, put a small pitcher and glass for water on their nightstand, along with a book they might enjoy

40. Learn how to host a small dinner party

41. Have one subdued solid colour scheme throughout your home, use accessories to add colour

42. Learn how to make the perfect martini

43. Learn how to tie both a regular tie and a bow tie (whether you’re a man or a woman)

44. Be a lady or a gentleman at work, especially when delivering a difficult message or when tempers flare

45. Wear lovely/handsome hats

46. Don’t point out the mistakes of others

47. Wait your turn patiently

48. Don’t curse

49. Chew each bite 20 times

50. Sip your drink

51. Learn proper etiquette for all situations

52. Accept compliments graciously

53. Be quietly self confident

54. Don’t boast

55. Be respectful of others

56. Have fresh flowers in your home

57. Write a letter rather than send an email to those you love

58. Keep your nails well manicured

59. Maintain your shoes and clothing

60. Don’t ever lose your joie de vivre

61. Be well groomed

62. Remember that money does not equal elegance, nor is it necessary to be elegant

63. Wear less make-up

64. Wear well-fitting clothes

65. Spray lavender on your sheets

66. Be positive

67. Learn to politely say no

68. Be concerned with making others feel comfortable

69. Maintain good health

70. Don’t overindulge

71. Hold yourself to high standards

72. Turn your mobile off at dinner

73. Wear simple, classic hairstyles

74. Think before you speak or act. Ask yourself, can anything good come from this?

75. Apoligize sincerely

76. Have integrity

77. Don’t speak ill of others, or gossip

78. Always take a gift to your host or hostess

79. Tie a scarf on your handbag

80. Take a clutch in the evening

81. Wear well fitting jeans with either a long sleeve white shirt or solid sweater for more casual events

82. Only wear sneakers for exercise

83. Use white sheets, white towels, white dishes

84. Be sure your clothes are pressed

85. Your car’s horn should say “pardon me, but do you see me?”, rather than “get out of my way!”

86. Overdo empathy

87. Light candles in your home

88. Go for walks in the park on Sunday

89. Give others sincere compliments

90. Understand your own worth

91. Learn how to open a bottle of champagne

92. Dress appropriately for the occasion

93. Do small favours for others, without expecting anything in return

94. Say please and thank you

95. Take the time to stop and listen to others, especially children

96. Take responsibility for yourself and your own happiness

97. Keep a journal

98. Give thoughtful gifts, rather than expensive ones

99. Less is more

100. Savour the moment


Friday, November 8, 2013

DIY Wedding Gift

Ok, this is my FAVORITE wedding gift (or gift for the couples first Christmas, or if YOU just got married, your parents might adore one as well!)

This is a very easy DIY ornament!

Cute, huh?

You will need:
•Scissors
•A clear, empty, glass or plastic ornament (Walmart $0.88)

•The wedding invitation (and any relevant accompanying envelope stuffers)

(Mine with some censoring) 
•Straw (I used a tumbler straw), Chopstick, Screwdriver, something of the like (or just your finger will do)

That is all you'll need!

How to:
•Step 1: Cut that Invite into strips! Sorry scrapbookers! If you want one because you are sentimental or crafty, ask the bride and groom (politely and AFTER the wedding, do NOT stress out the Bride or she may cut you.)

Horizontally cutting out each line as it's own (each name, date, etc.) so that it's readable.


If you have an invite like mine, you have several options for the blank space & emblem.


Option 1- Cut it out and slice it up. 
THIS LOOKS SO BAD NO MATTER HOW YOU DO IT!


Option 2- Cut it out! Looks cool in Step 2. 


Option 3- Also looks cool in Step 2 and if you want both, ask another guest if you can chop up their invite.


Option 4- Keep cutting horizontally, this is good if you have a lot of space to fill (I did with JUST the invite)

•Step 2: Curl those strips up!

The straw method (with the emblem cutout)


Straw with a strip because I just realized th emblem was a terrible example!


Finger wrap- part 1: curl around finger, not thumb.


Finger wrap- part 2: twist the curled strip into a tighter & longer curl. 

I really find that tools work better than fingers. Or multiple tools for multiple sized curls! Plus chopsticks you can get for free or 25 cents at a Chinese restaurant and tools, screwdrivers, etc. you can borrow from anyone!

•Step 3- Pack up!
Actually, Step 2 & 3 can go together, after each curl you can put it in the ornament until it's full! 

BAM!! Put the cap back on the ornament and you are finished!!! You can tie the wedding color ribbon around the neck of the ornament, alone or holding an ornamental tag with the year on it. You can add a bit of glitter (don't go overboard) to the inside of the ornament, matching confetti (if this is a Christmas gift confetti from the wedding!)

This ornament, however, commemorates a very special occasion, so keeping it timeless is key. The easiest way to keep it timeless is to (as hubby would say) KISS: Keep It Simple, Stupid!

-xoxo Sorority Housewife



















Saturday, November 2, 2013

Absence

I apologize for my absence, I have some personal affairs to attend to. In the meantime I will attempt to post my 3 featured bloggers! I'm praying for a quick return!

Sunday, October 27, 2013

Featured Bloggers

I have extended three invitations to different bloggers to contribute a blog to be featured here! Be looking out for them, I already have one confirmation! With the blog(s) I will have links to the featured blogger's page as I love all of them and you just might too!

-xoxo The Sorority Housewife

Saturday, October 26, 2013

Lemon Chicken Breast with Butter & Herb Rice

One of the "100 Rules of Etiquette" (which I will find and get permission to feature here) is to have a signature dish that you have perfected and serve when you have guests for dinner. This is mine.

Follow the Tips for Easier Cooking on this one, too, Belles! So get out your aprons, preheat your ovens to 425 degrees F, and let's get cooking!

Recipe yields 2-4 chicken breasts (1-3 servings) 

Tools you will need for tonight's meal:
Pot w/fitting lid for the rice
Stirring spoon (I use wooden, if you haven't caught on to that trend yet)
Frying Pan (for chicken breasts
Tongs (easier to flip chicken and transfer chicken)
Brownie pan (large enough to hold all the chicken breasts, 2 breasts- 9x9, more 8x13 or multiple pans)
Cutting board
Boning Knife
Meat Tenderizer (I use my fist hehe)
Knife to chop Asparagus (yes we're using fresh tonight, even if it's from the steam in bag, take it out)
Microwave Safe Bowl for the Asparagus
Butter knife
Plate for flour
Oven Mitts

Ingredients for the Chicken:
Enough Chicken Breasts for each diner (usually 1 a guest)
Salt (I use Sea Salt, another trend, enough to lightly cover each breast)
Flour 1-2 c. (start with 1 and add as you go)
EVOO (Extra Virgin Olive Oil, enough to coat the entire bottom of the frying pan)

Ingredients for Sauce (for 1-3 Breasts, 150% of each- double for more):
Capers (as few or many as you want)
1/4 c. White Wine (I suggest Chardonnay, Riesling, Gewurztraminer, or Muscat; whichever you prefer to drink as you will not need much and it will be a nice drink to go with the meal)
1/4 c. Lemon Juice
2 tbsp Unsalted Butter

Ingredients for the Rice (2-4 Servings):
2 c. low sodium Beef Broth
1 c. White Rice
2 tsp Dried Minced Onion
1/2 tsp Thyme
1/2 tsp Marjoram (I generally don't put this one in, but definitely try it first)
1/2 tsp Oregano
1/4 tsp Rosemary
2 tbsp Unsalted Butter

Ingredients for Asparagus:
Asparagus
3 tbsp Unsalted Butter
1/8 c. of the Wine from the sauce
A spritz of the Lemon Juice

Now that we're all settled, let's begin! Hopefully you haven't been idly heating your oven to 425 all this time, but if you have, well... that's not going to effect much. If not, this is when you'd start the preheat.

As with all my recipes, read in it's entirety so that you can time manage and aren't surprised by all of my random ending wrap-up to-dos! 
 
The rice takes about 25 minutes to make so generally I prep it without turning on the burner, start the chicken, then time manage to get everything done without too much of a fuss.

To prep the rice, mix all the ingredients into the saucepan and cover for now. Leave it and forget about it until I tell you to remember it again.

If you ever took Home Ec., you should remember the golden rule of cutting boards, cut the veggies before the meat as to not contaminate them. So chop the asparagus into 1-1 1/2' sticks and place them in the bowl and set it out of the way.

Now, fill a plate with 1c. flour and have your salt at the ready.  Take your (defrosted) chicken breasts one at a time onto the cutting board to trim off the fat.  After that is finished, either with a meat tenderizer or your fist, pound the chicken until it is as close to a 1/4-1/2" thick as humanly possible all over (this helps ensure it will cook all the way through). While we're trimming the fat and prepping the chicken, heat the olive oil in the frying pan (coat the bottom of the pan entirely) at this point we aren't cooking so let's keep it at medium (5) until all the chicken is ready and on the pan. After trimming the fat and pounding it to size, lightly cover the breast in salt then place in flour. Cover entirely, pack around so everything is covered then give a light shake so the excess flour falls back to the plate. Place the chicken into the pan and repeat (When half the chicken are done, turn the rice burner to high or just below, remove the lid, and bring to a boil) until all the breasts are in the pan then turn up the heat to medium-high (7)

Sorry for that multitask there. It's kind of necessary. If it begins to boil before you are done with the chicken, simply reduce the heat to medium- low (3) and cover. Stir on occasion, if you feel the broth is absorbing too quickly and the rice isn't getting tender enough, add up to a 1/4th cup hot tap water or 1/8 c. milk and stir in. The rice should simmer for 15-20 minutes before reaching prime tenderness.

Obviously you won't be focusing on the rice this whole time, you'll be watching the chicken as well. frequently check the chicken for brownness. If half the bottom is brown, then turn the chicken but don't flip and leave it for a few minutes then check again.  When it looks golden brown and fairly even all over, flip the breast (Obviously do this for all of them.)  When the other side is ALMOST done browning, add the wine, lemon juice, and capers. When it is fully done, reduce the heat to medium (5) and flip the the other side for about 2 minutes to allow it to absorb the juices. After this, transfer the breasts to the brownie pan (or casserole or whatever you're using) and put it in the oven for 5 minutes, this ensures doneness.) Add the butter to the frying pan and turn up the heat to med-high (8) to thicken the sauce, stir once or twice to mix in the melting butter.

When the the chicken is in the oven add wine and rice and wine to the bowl of asparagus and add the butter in thin slices then microwave for 3 minutes.

Never forget about the rice, stir occasionally and check for doneness by fluffing with a fork and taste testing for flavor and tenderness, you may season to taste at this point or add more butter or even a bit of cream to taste... at this point it is difficult to make the rice more tender without drowning it.  If timed correctly, the rice should be done before the chicken and can sit covered on the burner on low as with the coconut rice.  Same with the Asparagus, it will sit well in the microwave.

When the timer goes off for the chicken, remove promptly and place into the frying pan and reduce the heat back down to medium. Let the breasts absorb the juices on each side for 30 seconds to 1 minute before serving onto the plate. 

When serving onto the plate spoon a little of the sauce over the chicken making sure capers are included to add garnish, then add the rice and asparagus.  Do not forget a steak knife for each guest as well as the wine you cooked with!  (It is good practice to get two bottles, one bottle of cheap and one bottle of good, or one bottle of small and one large bottle; so that there is enough wine to go around.  Have extra beverages for non-wine drinkers, lemonade compliments this dish well.)

Hope you enjoy your meal!

-xoxo The Sorority Housewife
 


Friday, October 25, 2013

Honey Glazed Ahi Tuna Steaks with Coconut Rice!

This is one of my favorite meals to make during Lent.  I am not Catholic, but much of my family and my husband's family is, so we practice not eating meat (except fish) on Fridays.  As I am not cooking this tonight, I wont be posting pictures until the next time I make it unfortunately, but feel free to ask me questions if something isn't clear enough!

Remember all my kitchen lecture from the duck recipe and tips from the last blog post!! Yes? Good. No? Go read them. I expect you to use and practice them.
*NOTE* Read this Recipe in its ENTIRETY before beginning because time management can be difficult!

Let's get started!

Serving Size 3-5 people (depending on if men or women are eating and appetites)

What tools you'll need:
Broiler pan
Tongs
Whisk (size doesn't matter here, but tiny ones are very hard to use)
Medium or Large Pot (for the marinade)
Brownie Pan or large pot or casserole or anything that'll work (large and deep enough for the tuna steaks and sauce... you'll understand in time)
Space in your refrigerator for the above pan/pot
Sauce Pan and cover for Rice
Grater
Juicer for Limes (if you want, you can sub lime juice from the store)
Garlic Mincer (if you have one)
Mixing Spoon for rice (I use wooden)
Bowl for steaming Asparagus, Stove steamer, Vegetable steamer (if desired... I use steam in bag as they're usually out of season and good quality is hard to find in my area)
OVEN MITTS
(Apron if desired)

What ingredients you'll need:
Ahi Tuna Steaks (Fresh or Frozen, if frozen make sure they are in clear packaging so you can see that they are PINK and not GREY) how many you'll need depends on number of diners, and appetites. My brother-in-law and I can only eat one whereas my husband can easily eat two. For 2 people, I'd make 3 unless you're sure you'll both be satisfied with 1 a piece, for 3 people I would get 4 just in case, they are very simple to split and share.


Marinade (enough for up to 4-5 steaks):
1/4 c. EVOO (Extra Virgin Olive Oil if you don't fangirl Rachael Ray.)
2 tbsp Rice Vinegar (You can find this in the oriental foods section of your grocery store... took me 25 minutes to find.)
2 Juiced Limes or 4 tbsp (I usually use 6 hehe)
2 cloves Garlic (for Garlic Press if you have one, if not sub one tbsp pre minced garlic that you can buy at the grocery.)
1 tbsp Grated FRESH Ginger (just get a piece of ginger a little smaller than your thumb)
Salt (I use Sea Salt) & Pepper to taste
1/4 c.- 1 "bear" of Honey (depends on how much you like honey... I use an entire bear)

Coconut Rice:
2 c. Jasmine Rice (a small bag will do if you don't have a health food section where you can buy the exact amount you need.)
2 cans Coconut MILK (also found in the oriental section)
1 3/4 c. Water
1-2 tbsp Coconut Oil (or Vegetable oil if you don't want to invest... my oil hair mask can be done with coconut oil!)
Salt to taste

Asparagus:
Fresh Asparagus or
Frozen Asparagus or
Steam in bag Asparagus
(I use steam in bag so this one you have to time manage yourselves, sorry!)

Let's get down to business!

If you're using fresh tuna steaks, keep them in the fridge, no worries, if they're frozen, take care of those first. They thaw quickly, but it's still important. How they are packaged requires the package to be punctured prior to defrosting.  If you have time, bring them from the freezer the night before, if you're doing it the day of, 10-20 minutes before you get started, puncture them and soak them in warm water for just a bit. It won't take long and if they are still a little cold or frosty when the marinade is done you can run them under warm water for a few seconds then let them thaw as they marinade.

Just Prior to the Marinade:
Turn your Oven on to Broil (High) and put the Broiler pan into the oven.

Now the marinade.
Place the pot on a burner on low to low-medium heat (3-4)  Mix the EVOO, rice vinegar, lime juice, garlic, salt and pepper in the pot with your whisk. (Now, if you aren't experienced enough or confident enough to know how much salt or pepper to use, wait until you are ready to add the steaks and LIGHTLY salt and pepper the steaks before putting them in the marinading dish.) Next, grind the ginger straight into the mixing bowl, I don't bother to measure, it's just a marinade. Mix it up again then add the honey a little at a time to make the mixing go easier. Whisk the mixture until its as smooth as possible.

Remove the Tuna Steaks from defrosting or the fridge.  Here is where you would salt them and pepper them if you didn't add that to the marinade.  Place the steaks in the marinading dish you've selected and pour marinade over the steaks until they are approximately half covered. Move marinading steaks to the refrigerator. Place the extra marinade in the pot back on the burner and reduce heat to low mixing occasionally.

Let the steaks marinade for 15 minutes, flip with tongs, then marinade for another 15 minutes (still in the fridge.)

The rice:
You'll want to begin this some time during the marinade because the broiling process is quite hectic... be prepared!
Grease the pot (sides and bottom) with the oil to help prevent the rice from sticking to the pot and burning.
Add Water, Coconut Milk, and 2 c. Jasmine Rice to the pot and mix it all together.
Place on a burner and set to medium-high to high heat (7-9) stirring occasionally to prevent the sticking and burning I mentioned.
When the Milk-Water hits the infantile stages of boiling (bubbling up lightly) turn down the heat to just below low (1-1.5) and put the lid on the pot (make sure its the correct lid for the pot, the rice doesn't turn out right if you use one too big) and let the rice simmer for 15-20 minutes (generally takes 20 for me, but every stove is different (mine's electric.... I can hard'y boil water on a gas stove.)
To check doneness, fluff with a fork to make sure liquid is absorbed, if it is, you can taste test. If you feel it needs salt, here's where to add it. I generally don't I either squirt a bit of lime juice on it or some marinade to it and it literally tastes like candy. It is fabulous.  If the rice is done "too soon" no worries! Set the burner to low, keep the lid on and it will keep perfectly until you are done.

Asparagus:
Steam in bag, follow instructions on bag! Anything else, you're on your own! Why? Because I don't have a nifty steaming trick for the stove that I've tried out yet while cooking a meal that I'm willing to promote as a good way to cook it and because good asparagus is impossible to find where I live. I generally make my steam in bag after the steaks are done cooking.

Broiling the Steaks:
You will need your timer on the ready, your oven mitt and tongs on hand, zero distractions and ice in your veins because these steaks may very well fall apart as you're turning them and you need to keep a cool head, soldier up, and keep moving, get all the steaks turned, including the broken piece(s).
But really it's not THAT hard.
By the time the steaks are done marinading, the broiler is ready for them, pull out the rack that has the pan on it and either have someone hold the marinading dish for you or carefully but quickly transfer them from the counter to the pan with a hand under the steak so it doesn't fall to the floor place them on the pan, it doesn't matter where as long as you'll be able to flip them when the time comes. When you've got the fillets set and the oven closed, set the timer. (I like mine rare-medium to medium so I do 2 minutes per side, if you want medium, do 2.5 minutes, if you want medium well which I DO NOT recommend for tuna, 3 minutes) So if you want the perfect buttery honey sweet falls apart and melts in your mouth... set the timer for 2.... (it is completely safe to eat red tuna)
Sorry, got off track, the timer goes off, have your oven mitt and tongs ready so you can flip the steaks  as quickly as possible, then reset the timer for the same time as round one.  When it goes off again have both mitts and your tongs off to the side, take the broiler pan out of the oven, place it onto the stove  (cool burners) or, if you have them, iron placemates (the word is escaping me) for holding hot items off the stove. Then quickly transfer them to the dinner plates.

Start the Asparagus if you haven't already and serve the rice when you serve the Asparagus. Give the warm marinade a stir and spoon a bit onto each steak and onto the rice (and/or asparagus) if the diner so chooses to add a sweet and tangy  flavor to the rest of the meal.  I prefer my asparagus plain and my rice is wonderful alone, with rice, or even with the marinade!

The tuna will not be difficult to cut at all, a fork should be just fine, otherwise a butter knife will be sufficient.

Bon Appetit!

-xoxo The Sorority Housewife



Thursday, October 24, 2013

Tips For Easier Cooking

We've all been through those hectic moments in the kitchen when something we need is dirty or missing, there isn't enough counter space, timers all go off at the same time, or the voice in our head is saying "there has GOT to be an easier way to do this!" It happens to me, too, from time to time.
The tips I'm going to provide you may seem either like common sense or too tetious for the modern busy woman, but many of these tasks (especially the cleaning ones) can be done the night before, random times throught the day by you or a roommate/spouse/child. But I find that following these tips reduces stress or serious mess while cooking.

Tip 1:
Dishes, dishes, and more dishes!
Make sure the dishes are clean (ALL of them), that the dishwasher is empty, and that the sink is clean! 
This will allow you to place dirty items you're finished in the dishwasher immediately so it's not taking up space. As for the sink, a clean empty sink can be used for washing veggies, straining noodles, and emergency washings of a knife or cutting board or your hands.

Tip 2:
Whistle while you work!
Make sure the kitchen is free of any and all unnecessary clutter and is cleaned with a kitchen disinfectant spray. 
Most of us like our kitchens to look nice and be clean all the time, but it's not always possible and it's good to have a clean surface upon which to prepare dinner.

Tip 3:
Inventory!
Make sure you have all the dishes, cookware, dishes, pots/pans, utinsils, and gadgets that you'll need before you start. You don't want to end up like me making a duck and finding out mid-preparation that the bulb for my turkey baster was missing. It'll save you stress, searching, and makeshifting with something else.

Tip 4: 
Garbage Bowls!
You can go out an buy a Rachel Ray or whoever's ceramic Garbage Bowl for however much at the store. All a Garbage bowl is, is a large bowl you use to toss away meat trimmings, parts of the veggies you aren't using, pieces of packaging, or anything in front of you that isn't large that needs to be tossed so that you aren't constantly making trips to the trash can, saving you time. If you're an avid chef an cook from scratch often and have all sorts of gadgets in your cupboards, investing in one wouldn't be a waste if you don't see it that way. For everyone else, a large mixing bowl, or a paper bag that doesn't fall over will work just as well and doesn't cost you a dime!

Tip 5:
Pesky Grease!
Browning ground hamburger meat or ground sausage? Mom/grandma always tell you to put it in an old coffee can? Get real! Take some tinfoil wrap and line a regular bowl with it (leave plenty of excess over the edges). When it's time to strain the grease from the meat use the spatula to move the meat to one side and let the grease drip to the other by tipping the pan slightly. Use a turkey baster to suck up the grease and transfer it into the foil lined bowl until there is no more grease in the pan. When the grease in the bowl has cooled and turned semisolid, you can wrap it up in the foil and toss it in the trash!

Tip 6:
Time is money... Or food.
Ok. Time management. Having 3 timers go off at once causes confusion, chaos, and sometimes overcooked food. Prior to cooking figure out how long things need to cook, if anything needs to sit, etc. for instance, when cooking bird, the bird generally sits out of the oven for 10-15 minutes giving you time to finish potatoes and or stuffing, both of which can also get done a little early and kept covered and warm on a burner. Steam-in-bag veggies take less space than steaming on the stove and can be kept warm for longer periods of time simply by keeping them in the microwave! As for pasta, I recommend finishing the sauce prior to the noodles as it's easier to keep the sauce than the noodles.

Tip 7:
Dude! Looks like a lady!
Wear an apron. Preferably one with pockets. You can buy one... They make cute ones... But that's no fun! If you sew, sew your own! If you're crafty, buy a plain one and iron on, bedazzle, and craft the heck out of it! Make it your own just don't  do anything to it that will easily fall off!

Tip 8:
Girl, the back of your head is ridikulus!
(That was a MADD TV reference, the skit is "Can I have your Number?" I recommend you watch it and laugh forever.)
Ok, this is restating what I said in my recipe on Duck. There is a reason chefs wear hats or hairnets. It's to keep hair out of food. As women, our longer hair tends to break off every once and awhile especially if it's dry, over processed, or exposed to curling irons, flat irons, etc, often. So if you're not caring what you look like, pull your hair back, wear a hair band, something like that, if you're entertaining or it's a special night,put your hair partially back with bobby pins or a cute headband... Or pull it half back and clip a bow in it!

If you have any questions or any other tips, please let me know!

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Grandmother's Oven Roasted Duck

Ok y'all, as a Sorority alumna, I like to look good... I also like to put on yoga pants and a comfy shirt when I'm done for the night, but when I'm entertaining, I for sure want to look my best. Now in kitchens an restaurants, they wear hairnets or hats for a reason: to keep hair out of the food. Let's be honest, most of is have processed hair so it prone to lose a strand every once and awhile. So, keep in mind, while looking your best keep your hair partially, if not fully, pulled back in a manner that you are not going to play with it while cooking! Another tip, if you're dressing up for company, an apron is as MUST!!! Invest in a cute one or make one yourself!!!

Enough on appearance, next, the kitchen. Make sure it's CLEAN! And by clean I don't just mean do the dishes, I mean clean the counters of clutter (if it has a home and that home is not the counter, it does not belong on the counter) and then clean the counter, stove top, sink, and anything else you see with Lysol or chlorox or a kitchen cleaner of some kind. We don't want to contaminate the food! This is just general food safety. You'll also want to make sure you're using clean dishes and utinsils. Wash your hands, if you have fack nails, use a nail brush. When working with poultry it's generally good practice to wash your hands after you've touched poultry & before touching another item.

Ok, all the pre-cooking tips outs of the way, now onto dinner.

You Will Need:

Ingredients for Duck:
1 Whole Duck (fresh or frozen, thawed and remove giblets)
1/4 Yellow Onion
1 Bulb Garlic (decloved)
2 Sticks Unsalted Butter
Salt (I use Sea Salt in a grinder)
Pepper (I use Peppercorn in a grinder)
Garlic Powder (to cover duck)
Paprika (to cover duck)
Dried Rosemary (I've tried fresh, but I prefer it on chicken) approx 1 tbsp
Dried Thyme approx 1 tbsp
Vegitable Oil (to cover duck)

Ingredients for Garlic Mashed Potatoes
(For 2-3 people, my husband eats a lot):
5 Russet Potatoes
1 Stick Unsalted Butter
1-2 tbsp Goat Cheese Crumbles (don't knock it til you try it)
A large dallop of Sour Cream
1-2 dashes of Paprika 
1 dash Nutmeg
1 tbsp Oregano
1 tbsp Basil
Salt to taste
Garlic Powder to taste


"Ingredients" for Corn:
Use steam in bag, canned, or on the con, however you prefer. Cook to your liking, I just use steam in bag.

Dishware and Utinsils You'll Need:
Roasting pan or Stoneware (I use a Rachel Ray stoneware so the duck can absorb more juices)
Turkey Baster
Microwave Safe Pouring Cup
Paper Towels
Large Pot (for boiling potatoes)
Knife (to cut potatoes)
Potato Peeler
Strainer
Potato Masher
Wooden stirring spoon (that's what I use, you can sub your own stirring spoon)
Carving Knife & Fork
Serving dishes/utinsils if desired
Table setting dishes and utinsils 

You can't go wrong with a Gewürztraminer here. Or milk.

Let's get cooking! 
Pre-heat oven to 375

Ok, your duck is thawed and the giblets are removed. Rinse it well (the cavety too!) and dry the skin carefully and completely with paper towel. Place it in the container you are going to bake it in. 
Declove your garlic bulb and cut your onion into a quarter. Place the onion into the duck cavety and approximately half the cloves into the cavety with it. Place the remaining cloves around the duck in the roasting container.
Cover the duck entirely in vegetable oil on both sides (I start on top and end with the breasts so I can turn the bird less.) Once covered in oil I season the breast (salt, pepper, rosemary, thyme, paprika, garlic powder... I go light on the rosemary and thyme and heavy on the paprika and garlic, but that's my taste, you'll develop your own with experimenting,) then flip and do the same on the back. 
Once that is done you're ready to pop it in the oven for an hour. 


Wash & peel the potatoes.
After an hour, melt one stick of butter and spoon it onto the duck (pouring will wash the seasonings off the bird.) Then place the duck back in the oven for 45 minutes (baste every 15 minutes), start boiling the water for potatoes. 
While water is coming to a boil, cut up the potatoes (I cut them in half, halve the halves length wise then quarter them width wise (made that term😂). Put the sliced potatoes in the boiling/pre-boiling water and let boil just under high ( if you have settings like mine 8 or 9) for about 30 minutes. 

I'm guessing around this point, the oven timer will be about to go off, so melt another stick of butter. Once the timer goes off, spoon the butter on the bird. Place back in oven for 15 minutes (baste at 10 minutes).
Strain the potatoes then return to the empty pot, add the sour cream, butter, and crumbled goat cheese to the pot then mash! But not completely... Add paprika, nutmeg, oregano, basil, and salt & garlic powder to taste before it gets too creamy and mash some more! When it can't be mashed any more but isn't mixed enough, switch to your mixing spoon until you're satisfied with the consistency. Prepare to be in love!

The corn is easy, microwave or stovetop however you prefer, just time and space manage. Your potatoes should be done around the same time as the bird, but never fear! Finish the potatoes up then pull the duck out and let it sit for 15 minutes to let the juices settle.


Saturday, October 19, 2013

DIY Satin Hands

You will need:
Vaseline (or Aquaphor, a petroleum based lotion)
You do not need to bling your tub of Vaseline, I was bored and had gems and hot glue...

A container (I use an empty and washed pesto jar)

To fill the jar you will need Sugar, olive oil, and (if you desire, liquid Vitamin E, either sold as a liquid or obtained from gel capsules).

The final thing you will need to this three step process is a LIGHT lotion. Nothing thick like Eucerin or Cocoa Butter... Doesn't need to be expensive either, I find Hempz brand work well, but as long as it's a thinner lotion, you go ahead and use it, girl!

Creating your Satin Hands:
Step 1: Vaseline
This is done unless you want to paint or bling the container or remove the petroleum to another clean pesto jar (you can use 3 pesto jars tie a bow around them with ribbon to hold a tag labeling them and give them as a gift!) 

Step 2: The Scrub!
Here is where I apologize. I am the kind of chef who cooks by taste and consistency rather than exact measurements. Generally I advise to fill the pesto jar half full and slowly add olive oil and stir until it reaches a consistency like so:

Then, if you're adding Vitamin E, which is optional, add up to 10 drops or 1-2 capsules and mix well. Then the scrub is done! Store at room temperature!

Step 3: The Lotion.
Again, either done, or transfer to a clean pesto jar.

Now, the fun part!
How to use!

Step 1:
Apply Vaseline to your hands, not a lot, just enough to thinly cover them entirely.

Step 2:
Take some sugar scrub ( I generally use the size of two quarters because I have fun with it) and on your Vaselined hands, scrub both hands entirely for about a minute (longer if you like, you're exfoliating and moisturizing with the olive oil and Vitamin E) then rinse with warm water (cold will suck some moisture out) no soap. Make sure all the sugar crystals are gone or they get annoying! When your hands are sugar-free, towel dry before:

Step 3:
Apply your lotion of choice to lock in moisture! 

This process is quick to make with items and ingredients we generally have around the house or can purchase for little cost. The actual process of pampering your hands is fun and doesn't take time out of your busy schedule, either. 
As I said earlier they make great gifts! If I had one more clean Pesto jar I'd make an example of how cute they look but my puppy is sick so I'll update this later, loves! Any comments or questions, feel free to post.
-The Sorority Housewife



Friday, October 18, 2013

Facial Mask for Acne Prone Skin!

As promised on twitter- here it is!

You will need:
Approx 10 whole strawberries (greens & centers removed, mashed)
1/2 lemon (juiced, may sub 1 1/2 tbsp lemon juice if desired)
1 tbsp honey
1/2 tbsp olive oil (1 tbsp for dry skin, but if you're acne prone I recommend 1/2)

How to make:
Mix all ingredients very thoroughly!

*Note prior to application:
Lemon is citrus, citrus stings! Avoid the eye area and be wary of cuts, open sores or pimples, it WILL sting VERY badly!!

Application and Use:
Apply to entire face except lips and eye area (leave a circle around eyes, nothing below eyebrows or above cheekbone, use judgement on sides!) one the mask is applied leave on for 5-10 minutes. I recommend 10 if it's not stinging you terribly. Then wash off completely with warm water and pat dry face with a clean towel (I like mine fresh from the dryer!)

I hope you find this mask helpful!

Thursday, October 17, 2013

DIY Deep Conditioning Hair Mask

I’ll make photos for this…
This hair mask is VERY simple and requires only olive oil and Saran Wrap (things you probably already have!) this heated oil mask opens the pores in your hair to allow the oil to penetrate and nourish dry, damaged, or over-processed hair for a very satisfying result! Enjoy!
Step 1: Heat olive oil (coconut oil and grape seed oil work as well) on the stove until it is very warm to the touch but not too hot to handle. 1/4 cup should work for most hair lengths. (You should also be heating a towel to wrap on your head in the dryer at this point.)


Step 2: Transfer oil into a bowl or container that can take the heat. 

Step 3: Apply to hair in sections to ensure all of your hair is covered. I do this by hand but a brush used for hair dye works well too. (If you have oily hair, avoid putting oil on the scalp.)

Step 4: Put hair up and wrap in Saran Wrap.

Step 5: Blowdry hair through the cling wrap to reheat the oil, but do not make it uncomfortably warm!)

Step 6: Wrap towel from dryer around hair/plastic wrap to keep the heat in.
Step 6: Leave in for 15 minutes (for oily hair) and up to 30 minutes (for dry hair.)

Step 7: Wash hair to remove oil, but do not strip it completely. You can use conditioner as normal.
Step 8: Let hair air dry! Brush, but allow your hair to dry naturally because there is no sense in adding heat damage to freshly pampered hair!

Facial Mask

Facial Mask to open the pores, exfoliate the skin, hydrate without making oily skin more oily, and reduce redness and puffiness. All you need is 2 tsp honey 1 tsp nutmeg and 1 tsp cinnamon. Things you already have in your kitchen, yeah? Mix them together into a thick paste (smells great!) if it’s not thick enough add a little more cinnamon. 
Apply the mixture to your entire face save for the eyelids and don’t go so close under the eyes that your eyelashes get stuck! Let sit on your face for 30 minutes before washing off with warm water (and face soap.) This mask can be done morning or night, just follow up with your normal moisturizing routine! Enjoy!